Oct 18

Dating Advice - Women Want A Man Who\’s Better Than Them



This may seem controversial... but I know from experience that it works. At the initial stages of the pickup - you need to think you\'re better than the woman. I don\'t care how beautiful she is - go in thinking you\'re better. If she\'s better looking than you - go in knowing that you\'re smarter than her. If she seems like she\'s really smart - keep it in your head that you have a better sense of humor than her. Now - here\'s the challenge... you don\'t want to come across as blatantly condescending. Picture you\'re teacher when you were in school as a young kid. Your teacher knew he was smarter than you - but didn\'t have to put you down to let you know that. The teacher\'s belief that he was smarter than you was enough to make it clear that he was in fact smarter than you. So you never come out and say, \"I\'m smarter than you\" - but just believe it and she\'ll feel it.

Women want to date up, not down. They want a guy who\'s better than them. They don\'t want to feel that you\'re lesser than her. Don\'t confuse this with being conceited. Conceited is ugly and false - this is a true inner belief that you are better than her. So at the start of the conversation, figure out which ways you know that you\'re better than her - and keep them in your minds-eye. Don\'t focus on the ways she\'s better than you even if they\'re totally obvious. Immediately find and focus in on the ways you\'re better than her.

Let\'s say she\'s beautiful and rich but you can tell she has an extra 5 or 10 pounds on her, and you\'re ugly and broke but you have a great build with 6 pack abs. Ya know what should be in the back of your head while you\'re talking to her? That you have great abs and she\'s a little out of shape. NOT, \"Oh my God she\'s rich and beautiful and I\'m broke.\" If she\'s beautiful and tall but seems a little less than worldly, and you\'re short but you know you\'re smart, you focus on the fact that you\'re smarter than her - not that she\'s taller than you. You\'re whole physiology changes when doing this and your body language and tone will respond accordingly. You can\'t seem insecure when you\'re thinking that you\'re better than her.

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Thank You,
\r Spencer Michaels

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